When we are working for a boss that we really enjoy working with, it is a joy to be able to include their name in our lists for intercession. However, when the relationship is not one where we feel a sense of camaraderie and pleasure in working for the same ends, it is more difficult.
This relationship is not like a friendship where there can be give and take and if we drift apart, the consequences need not be that serious. Rather, this relationship can shape our everyday lives.
If we have a boss with whom, although we may not have a personal friendship, we are nevertheless able to enjoy a relationship of mutual respect and perhaps even encouragement, to pray for them does not require a great deal of effort on our part.
However, it is not always that way. We may work with a boss, for whom we feel respect or even admiration at times, but at other times, we are confused and not at all sure, what their modus operandi is. Then it may not be quite so easy to pray for them. Faithfulness if prayer for them requires that we remember them on both the good days and the bad.
At the far end of the spectrum is the boss, who causes us to pray for ourselves every day, so we can respond in a respectful manner to their interactions with us. To pray for such a boss may be harder, as we would rather curse them than bless them. We may need to precede our prayers for them with prayers for our own attitudes, so that we do not respond by lashing out at them for the way that we feel they are treating us.
As with all challenging relationships, praying for a supervisor with whom we have a difficult relationships, demands that we ask for a spirit of discernment to try to understand ways that we may be creating tensions in the relationship. When we are convinced that our own attitude is not the catalyst, we then can pray for the needs of our superior, aware that they may be struggling with issues that are completely outside our awareness.
Each morning, as I pray for those to whom I am accountable in my various responsibilities, I am grateful to say that at this time, I am able to offer gratitude for the respectful manner in which I am usually treated. It has not always been that way and it may not always be so, but for the moment, I can be grateful that this is my situation.